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Accept The Real You | Love Yourself

                   YOU ARE THE BEST
Love yourself as much as you can . Because if you don't love yourself, you send out a negative energy of being wanted and being loved. You want everyone around you to love u and respect you and you fail to realize that you are just trying to impress others all the time. You say things that you feel others will like and not what you genuinely want to say.

We all of us at some point have felt that the other person have better moves to rock a dance floor , better voice or may be a great IQ. And that's natural and totally fine. But what is not fine is the fact that we start feeling we are not good in any way. We sometimes feel that we do not have anything in us to be liked or to be appreciated by others.

We need to understand that it's ok to be average not everybody has moves like Michael Jackson and surely not everybody is Einstein. If someone can solve a mathematics problem faster than me he surely has skills and I am okay with it . 

See the last two  paragraph I just said about things that others can do better than you and you must be wondering you jumped to a wrong article it's just to make you feel worse. But no the point is that you can love yourself when you accept that everyone in the world has their strengths and weakness and it's not something you should care about. Most of our insecurities and the trait of feeling less than others  starts from the thought that others are so much better.


You may sometimes feel that you don't have any talent but wait just think may be you don't know of it and someone else knows .May be the way you are is something others envy. Afterall neither you nor me goes out to tell a person that we feel they are better than us and similarly we cant expect others to come and tell us it is our bloody job to find out our talents.

And also I don't understand what is the problem with being average .Not all of us are eventually going to end up in big houses and be the head of our dream companies with all the name and fame .Many of us will do a 9 to 5 job and still be happy.

No I am not telling you to stop dreaming but don't dream at cost of your happiness.  You may fulfill all your dreams one day but that surely cannot happen if you are stuck thinking you are less than others.

So just accept yourself the way you are and one day the world will accept you for who you are. Love yourself for who u are. Accept your flaws and carry them with a grace. Even they make u different from rest. Love yourself more than anyone else because if u don't love yourself u will never be able to love others and be happy. Be happy and all the positive things will follow.